The grumpy thread

[chadders]

1 hour ago, barefoot said:

Ta, tried that. An hour on the old charger followed by a recondition from the built in Ctek resulted in a green light, but a normal charge a week later showed me a red dot. As did another attempt at a recon. I suppose I could try the old skool charger again. What's to lose?

I reckon one more time is worth it, especially if getting the leisure battery out is best done by a weight lifting octopus. I hope that you have better luck than I did finding one. Try getting it fully charged on the old school charger and only use the CTEK when it needs recharging again.

[Zelandeth]

Yep...even after cleaning up the obvious carnage, replacing the two IC sockets which had dissolved, it's precisely as grumpy as I expected.

One power up it did show Er12 instead...which isn't an error code that's listed in the manual... they're 0-6 with or without the decimal point lit.  So yeah, we have problems.

[paulplom]

16 hours ago, barefoot said:

Ta, tried that. An hour on the old charger followed by a recondition from the built in Ctek resulted in a green light, but a normal charge a week later showed me a red dot. As did another attempt at a recon. I suppose I could try the old skool charger again. What's to lose?

I've connected two batteries together when recharging with a ctek. It fools it into thinking the dead battery isn't too flat. 

[cobblers]

We've got some allotments behind our house and there's a few people with chickens. Chickens attract rats like nowt else, and the loft of our house is absolutely riddled with them. I've tried poisons, traps, blocking the holes up etc and finally seem to be on top of it as best I can. It's a 300 year old stables conversion so I'm never gonna get it totally vermin proof.

My van failed the MOT the other day on neither side repeater working.

Popped them out to change the bulbs, and look at this!

Fucking bastard vermin!!! What winds me up more than owt is that I drive the van every day - it's not as though it's been stood for months to allow them to make a home etc.

I think I'm going to have to go fucking nuclear and get about ten million of every type of trap and put them everywhere.

 

What also rubbed me up the wrong way is that the people on the allotments with the chickens were moaning that we're building a summer house because it'll spoil their view! Fuck off!!!

 

[artdjones]

1 minute ago, cobblers said:

We've got some allotments behind our house and there's a few people with chickens. Chickens attract rats like nowt else, and the loft of our house is absolutely riddled with them. I've tried poisons, traps, blocking the holes up etc and finally seem to be on top of it as best I can. It's a 300 year old stables conversion so I'm never gonna get it totally vermin proof.

My van failed the MOT the other day on neither side repeater working.

Popped them out to change the bulbs, and look at this!

Fucking bastard vermin!!! What winds me up more than owt is that I drive the van every day - it's not as though it's been stood for months to allow them to make a home etc.

I think I'm going to have to go fucking nuclear and get about ten million of every type of trap and put them everywhere.

 

What also rubbed me up the wrong way is that the people on the allotments with the chickens were moaning that we're building a summer house because it'll spoil their view! Fuck off!!!

 

Sounds like you need to do something that will attract plenty of foxes to your area.

[hairnet]

wanted to listen to something that had someone on it (had been watching another video)

but it was autoalex (whoever the fuck that is)

lasted 10 secs

[artdjones]

13 hours ago, hairnet said:

wanted to listen to something that had someone on it (had been watching another video)

but it was autoalex (whoever the fuck that is)

lasted 10 secs

Yes, and you probably had to listen to 15 seconds of an ad for pile cream first.

[beko1987]

I saw this bastard on my engine bay last weekend. I thought it was dead and went to get a bag to put it in and when I got back it was gone. 

I don't know if it had just run in and up JUST as I happened to need screenwash, or if it was there the 15 miles from mine to mums (I ran out of screenwash driving over). 

It prompted me to give the car a fucking good hoover the next day and found 0 traces of anything and I had a good look in the engine bay and found no nest, although i'd like to put a pressure washer over it to be sure but fuck that currently. 

Bastard things, now I'll be mindful of the indicators. I put my hand right up  behind the dash to check incase that's where my airbag light came from and there was a big mouse nest up there. In hindsight it was probably a stupid thing to do as if there was a massive nest... I see them run across the patio too between the gardens so their about 

[Westbay]

14 hours ago, cobblers said:

We've got some allotments behind our house and there's a few people with chickens. Chickens attract rats like nowt else, and the loft of our house is absolutely riddled with them. I've tried poisons, traps, blocking the holes up etc and finally seem to be on top of it as best I can. It's a 300 year old stables conversion so I'm never gonna get it totally vermin proof.

My van failed the MOT the other day on neither side repeater working.

Popped them out to change the bulbs, and look at this!

Fucking bastard vermin!!! What winds me up more than owt is that I drive the van every day - it's not as though it's been stood for months to allow them to make a home etc.

I think I'm going to have to go fucking nuclear and get about ten million of every type of trap and put them everywhere.

 

What also rubbed me up the wrong way is that the people on the allotments with the chickens were moaning that we're building a summer house because it'll spoil their view! Fuck off!!!

 

Put a complaint in to the Council on health grounds ...

[motorpunk]

Covid. Have been stuck in bed for days and feel like shite. Fuck this.

[sierraman]

15 hours ago, cobblers said:

We've got some allotments behind our house and there's a few people with chickens. Chickens attract rats like nowt else, and the loft of our house is absolutely riddled with them. I've tried poisons, traps, blocking the holes up etc and finally seem to be on top of it as best I can. It's a 300 year old stables conversion so I'm never gonna get it totally vermin proof.

My van failed the MOT the other day on neither side repeater working.

Popped them out to change the bulbs, and look at this!

Fucking bastard vermin!!! What winds me up more than owt is that I drive the van every day - it's not as though it's been stood for months to allow them to make a home etc.

I think I'm going to have to go fucking nuclear and get about ten million of every type of trap and put them everywhere.

 

What also rubbed me up the wrong way is that the people on the allotments with the chickens were moaning that we're building a summer house because it'll spoil their view! Fuck off!!!

 

I’ve had allotments for nearly 20 years, chickens have invariably caused problems. I’ve known people keeping cockrells there, often people will just decide to get chickens without considering either the welfare or how it might annoy others. More annoying is people inconsiderately having fires, I know of people that have one every week burning crap from home. This is pretty easily dealt with by issuing notice to quit if they continue to do it after warnings. 
 

That said you’ll get rats regardless, they are attracted to go under sheds, greenhouses etc. But the benefits of having an allotment behind out weigh this as they’re an asset to the community. 

[fairkens]

17 hours ago, cobblers said:

We've got some allotments behind our house and there's a few people with chickens. Chickens attract rats like nowt else, and the loft of our house is absolutely riddled with them. I've tried poisons, traps, blocking the holes up etc and finally seem to be on top of it as best I can. It's a 300 year old stables conversion so I'm never gonna get it totally vermin proof.

My van failed the MOT the other day on neither side repeater working.

Popped them out to change the bulbs, and look at this!

Fucking bastard vermin!!! What winds me up more than owt is that I drive the van every day - it's not as though it's been stood for months to allow them to make a home etc.

I think I'm going to have to go fucking nuclear and get about ten million of every type of trap and put them everywhere.

 

What also rubbed me up the wrong way is that the people on the allotments with the chickens were moaning that we're building a summer house because it'll spoil their view! Fuck off!!!

 

For a while bait the traps but don't set them. Rats don't like change so you need to get them used to the traps before you set them. Otherwise it's pointless

[comfortablynumb]

Had chickens and rats, got rid of chickens, still got rats.

Dogs help, but if you're buying poison get the one dose stuff, most others are useless IMHO 

[gm]

after a day of unsuccessful Bini fettling, I nipped along to lidls to pick up a pizza

which went well

fortunately, @DVee8 rescue services were super efficient and arrived within 5 mins  

unsure as to wether you can tow an automatic, we thought fuck it and did anyway

from breakdown  back to base in under 15 mins, must be some sort of record.

cranking the engine produced a stinky puddle of diesel under the rear end - fuel line or filter ? 

will find out tomorrow, its -4oC out there just now

mega thanks to @DVee8 for towing me home (again) beers are on me next time !

[gm]

it occurs to me that I've been towed home 3 times from within a 1 mile radius of where I live - I wonder if there's some sort of Bermuda Triangle sort of thing going on ? (one mx5 timing belt, one volvo fuel line / filter and one other incident)

 

[DVee8]

7 hours ago, gm said:

it occurs to me that I've been towed home 3 times from within a 1 mile radius of where I live - I wonder if there's some sort of Bermuda Triangle , Waldridge Ring, sort of thing going on ? (one mx5 timing belt, one volvo fuel line / filter and one other incident)

 

Maybe. There was also one very flat tyre in Gateshead. I had a meeting yesterday from 2 to 3, so my phone was on silent. I'd forgotten to change it back, but something at around 8.40 told me to check my phone. 

Anyway, I hope you get it fixed today or the Suzi may have to come to the rescue.

Also I think you'll find the problem if you look at the above photo (last one), the Volvo's upside down, now I didn't leave you like that.

[Bren]

Been below freezing here. I can get into the BMW as normal - unlike the mondeo which has frozen locks. Two days running. Modern fords are wank.

[New POD]

So, in October Dad was told cancer on his voice box was in his lungs and he had 6 months to 2 years. 

Before Christmas he had 6 nights in hospital due to sodium levels being low, came home Christmas Eve.  

Roll on 2 weeks, he's not got long left. Marie Curie nurses and palitive care team and District nurse in and out of his house. 

Mum phoned me last night to say he hadn't eaten for nearly 2 days, and is very week. 

Well yes. When I last saw him (28th December) he looked pretty bad.  I've left them to it since then as one sister is around the corner (4 miles away) and my other sister flew in from the USA for a week, so I kept away (there's nothing I can really do at the moment..) 

Planned to visit this weekend. 

I'm fairly sure my emotions are normal because I've discussed them with my wife and a couple of trusted colleagues, but I have no wish to be part of a vigil holding his hand.  My last few words to him when he was able to get out of bed, were "Look Dad, try and smile. You are getting everything your own way for the first time in your life, and you have no pain. You have a view of Snowdon, and know everyone loves you, so less looking like someone's pissed on your chips"  

Christ he's even written the order of service for his funeral chosen the hymns and readings and had mum get all his suits and shirts out and chosen which ones go with the tie he wants to wear......I think the tie is important as he's had a tracheotomy fitted for 2 years, and before that it was rare that he didn't have a tie on.

But based on mum's call last night I'm feeling like I just wish he'd die and get it over with. Before I visit on Saturday would be good (or more convenient)for me. I'm grumpy because this makes me seem like a twat. 

My views on death are very simple. Inevitable for all of us. Likelyhood of it happening follows the reliability bathtub curve. When it's my time make it quick. 

[EyesWeldedShut]

1 minute ago, New POD said:

I'm grumpy because this makes me seem like a twat. 

You have (more or less) echoed my sentiments from 2016 when my Dad was diagnosed with metastasised kidney cancer.
I had a good old chat with him after the delivery of the verdict and once more before he shuffled off about three/four months later. We parted on a good basis and I was happy with that.
My siblings went through the all night(s) vigil waiting for him to go (ditto my Mum) as they felt it was the thing to do. Given that neither of my parents were awake/aware in the final days then I couldn't see the point.
Maybe I'm a twat too - I prefer realist.

[Sunny Jim]

@New POD if you're in the area over the weekend and you fancy meeting up for a pint/coffee/walk or whatever at any stage drop me a PM. Some friends say I'm a good listener, if you'd like find out I'd be happy to listen.

[artdjones]

1 hour ago, New POD said:

So, in October Dad was told cancer on his voice box was in his lungs and he had 6 months to 2 years. 

Before Christmas he had 6 nights in hospital due to sodium levels being low, came home Christmas Eve.  

Roll on 2 weeks, he's not got long left. Marie Curie nurses and palitive care team and District nurse in and out of his house. 

Mum phoned me last night to say he hadn't eaten for nearly 2 days, and is very week. 

Well yes. When I last saw him (28th December) he looked pretty bad.  I've left them to it since then as one sister is around the corner (4 miles away) and my other sister flew in from the USA for a week, so I kept away (there's nothing I can really do at the moment..) 

Planned to visit this weekend. 

I'm fairly sure my emotions are normal because I've discussed them with my wife and a couple of trusted colleagues, but I have no wish to be part of a vigil holding his hand.  My last few words to him when he was able to get out of bed, were "Look Dad, try and smile. You are getting everything your own way for the first time in your life, and you have no pain. You have a view of Snowdon, and know everyone loves you, so less looking like someone's pissed on your chips"  

Christ he's even written the order of service for his funeral chosen the hymns and readings and had mum get all his suits and shirts out and chosen which ones go with the tie he wants to wear......I think the tie is important as he's had a tracheotomy fitted for 2 years, and before that it was rare that he didn't have a tie on.

But based on mum's call last night I'm feeling like I just wish he'd die and get it over with. Before I visit on Saturday would be good (or more convenient)for me. I'm grumpy because this makes me seem like a twat. 

My views on death are very simple. Inevitable for all of us. Likelyhood of it happening follows the reliability bathtub curve. When it's my time make it quick. 

There's no "right" way to deal with the situation. When my mother died she'd been on her back in hospital for seven years, not knowing where she was. So in a way she'd died 7 years before. Once you've let them go it's not the same when they finally do go.

[auntiemaryscanary]

I'm always grumpy Saturday morning due to the standard domestic drudegery plus the "can you just" jobs. Today was only 2 drill & rawplug holes for a mirror and corkboard in a kid bedroom.

Easy job. Tidy up. Why isn't the vac working? Unsurprisingly the bagless bag is rammed. Bagless emptied, filters cleaned still no suction

"Remember to to empty the vac and clean the filter when you've used it please darling, I've emptied it again".

Hardly earth shattering stuff but chuffed I'm off work Monday. Plan is morning at the allotment and the afternoon into evening playing* in the garage with the installed Chinese diesel heater fired up as required.

[Mally]

On 09/01/2025 at 10:11, New POD said:

So, in October Dad was told cancer on his voice box was in his lungs and he had 6 months to 2 years. 

Before Christmas he had 6 nights in hospital due to sodium levels being low, came home Christmas Eve.  

Roll on 2 weeks, he's not got long left. Marie Curie nurses and palitive care team and District nurse in and out of his house. 

Mum phoned me last night to say he hadn't eaten for nearly 2 days, and is very week. 

Well yes. When I last saw him (28th December) he looked pretty bad.  I've left them to it since then as one sister is around the corner (4 miles away) and my other sister flew in from the USA for a week, so I kept away (there's nothing I can really do at the moment..) 

Planned to visit this weekend. 

I'm fairly sure my emotions are normal because I've discussed them with my wife and a couple of trusted colleagues, but I have no wish to be part of a vigil holding his hand.  My last few words to him when he was able to get out of bed, were "Look Dad, try and smile. You are getting everything your own way for the first time in your life, and you have no pain. You have a view of Snowdon, and know everyone loves you, so less looking like someone's pissed on your chips"  

Christ he's even written the order of service for his funeral chosen the hymns and readings and had mum get all his suits and shirts out and chosen which ones go with the tie he wants to wear......I think the tie is important as he's had a tracheotomy fitted for 2 years, and before that it was rare that he didn't have a tie on.

But based on mum's call last night I'm feeling like I just wish he'd die and get it over with. Before I visit on Saturday would be good (or more convenient)for me. I'm grumpy because this makes me seem like a twat. 

My views on death are very simple. Inevitable for all of us. Likelyhood of it happening follows the reliability bathtub curve. When it's my time make it quick. 

I think the same way as your dad, and you.

I've written my arrangements a few times, but keep changing things round.

My financial arrangements are set in stone as far as possible.

My late wife went very fast with lung cancer,. You have my thoughts and wishes.

[New POD]

35 minutes ago, Mally said:

I think the same way as your dad, and you.

I've written my arrangements a few times, but keep changing things round.

My financial arrangements are set in stone as far as possible.

My late wife went very fast with lung cancer,. You have my thoughts and wishes.

Spent most of the night with him.  This was not a vigil as such just that he needs suction every now and again and blood and snot removing from his tracheotomy tube. Was glad when my sister took over at 4 am but not glad when I realised I hadn't been drinking decaff coffee like I assumed. 

Marie Currie nurse staying tonight.  Seems to be a random thing. They ring about 1pm to say they are coming at 10 pm. 

[GrumpiusMaximus]

Wishing you all the best at this difficult time @New POD.

[Mally]

3 hours ago, New POD said:

Spent most of the night with him.  This was not a vigil as such just that he needs suction every now and again and blood and snot removing from his tracheotomy tube. Was glad when my sister took over at 4 am but not glad when I realised I hadn't been drinking decaff coffee like I assumed. 

Marie Currie nurse staying tonight.  Seems to be a random thing. They ring about 1pm to say they are coming at 10 pm. 

We nursed my dad at home for 3 months on our own. My wife stopped work, I was on the best wage.

We were both dead beat, turned him over every 2 hours. The promised night relief turn up the day after he died. We had informed them.

My wife was in hospital, so easier, but spent many nights on a reclining chair.

Strangely it's still a shock when it finally happens.

[Metal Guru]

41 minutes ago, Mally said:

We nursed my dad at home for 3 months on our own. My wife stopped work, I was on the best wage.

We were both dead beat, turned him over every 2 hours. The promised night relief turn up the day after he died. We had informed them.

My wife was in hospital, so easier, but spent many nights on a reclining chair.

Strangely it's still a shock when it finally happens.

I’ve only really got experience of one health authority here but I get the impression it’s fairly wide spread, but the organisation of support workers for caring at home is absolutely shocking. I’m not talking about the care received ( which can be patchy but it’s not a nice job and people will have bad days etc), but the logistics , where and when they’re supposed be there , equipment needed delivered after death, unbriefed staff turning up and having to be told the  whole story from scratch, staff turning up at home after hospital admission or death , etc etc.

All that is wasted resources supposedly in short supply but nothing changed in the three years between my Mum and Dad requiring them.

No one is willing to criticise the NHS, but it can’t be denied that it is run by complete idiots. 

[Mally]

18 minutes ago, Metal Guru said:

 

No one is willing to criticise the NHS, but it can’t be denied that it is run by complete idiots. 

I replied to this but have deleted. 

There were a few cock ups with my wife along the way.  Both  doctors refused to sigh the death certificate,

Coroner wanted  a post mortem, maybe inquest.  My decision, and we let it go.

The kids wanted it over and done by Xmas, which was what happened.

Probably for the best.  We all make mistakes, as they said when I scrapped a £6,000 panel at Aerospace.

I wouldn't like to be playing with human bodies.

[Metal Guru]

6 hours ago, Mally said:

I replied to this but have deleted. 

There were a few cock ups with my wife along the way.  Both  doctors refused to sigh the death certificate,

Coroner wanted  a post mortem, maybe inquest.  My decision, and we let it go.

The kids wanted it over and done by Xmas, which was what happened.

Probably for the best.  We all make mistakes, as they said when I scrapped a £6,000 panel at Aerospace.

I wouldn't like to be playing with human bodies.

I’ve no real problem with the actual medical care, it’s just various departments don’t have a clue what others are doing. For example, they had a meeting re my mother going home, half an hour before she died. No one had checked on her condition to be sent home but they were “organising” beds, local cover etc. Also no one ever involved our family in these discussions. I live 100 miles from my mother’s house, my siblings 300. They never asked us how we’d organise things or how long we needed to rearrange our lives around it. 

This is a Trust that has put “integrated” into their title. Deluded!

[sierraman]

Radio Presenters on Greatest Hits… why do they talk incessant bollocks. Had Greatest Hits Radio on earlier, Gerry Rafferty Baker Street was on, gets the to guitar solo and he comes on and talks over it! What a cunt!!! And why do they have this constant ‘countdown to the weekend’ I do actually have some sort of pleasure and enjoyment on weekdays. 
 

This interruption is tantamount to getting your end away then just as you are getting to the vinegar strokes some fucker walking in and asking you to sign something or the radio coming on disrupting your rhythm.