Sorry, whats he actually done?
What was he intention?
Who was encouraging him?
Was the victim really innocent?
Give the lad some slack.
At 14, my parents were invited into school.to discuss my behaviour. I was put on report. Meaning at the end of each class i had to get a form signed.
After 4 weeks my form was inspected and i was critised by the deputy head for getting a single C for effort. Out of all A and Bs
Looking back. My behaviour had changed. Id hit puberty with a growing hatred of authority. And i despised most of my peer group. The ones who had made the previous 3 years almost unbearable.
If you want my advice, take him to a clmbing wall. Both of you do the ropes course, and every wednesday evening, spend 3 hours trusting each other to save the others life, by being attached on a bylay rope. Challenge him and get him to challenge you to do scarey but safe. Talk to him like a fucking adult.
Don't take the blue eyed boy. (Arrange it at a time wjjen he has maths club)